Six Signs Your Partner Is Cheating and a Surefire Way To Catch Them

 

Need to find out if your partner is cheating on you?

Heartbreak. Betrayal. Insecurity. Jealously. Anger. Getting cheated on is one of the worst experiences in life.

Whether you want to scream, destroy their stuff, or hide away, there's still a tremendous amount of uncertainty we feel when we think someone is cheating on us. You are worth more and deserve better! Keep reading for signs your partner is cheating and a surefire way to catch them.

Nearly everyone who's been cheated on says one of two things:

• I should have seen it coming but ignored the signs.
• I saw the signals but didn't want to believe them.

The hard part is that victims don't arrive here until after they find out they've been cheated on. We don't want that for you. Here are some telltale warning signs your significant other is cheating:

Deleting text messages and Facebook Messenger threads: Removing texts and messaging app conversations is the digital version of hiding evidence under a mattress. Most people aren’t neurotic enough that they need to delete all their old texts and conversation history.

Texts and calls from strangers: Is your partner getting text messages from unknown numbers or random calls they say are wrong numbers? Sure, the number of robocalls and spam texts are going up, but if they’re consistently from the same number, it could be more than a spammer.

Overprotective of their phone: Yes, personal privacy is crucial even in a relationship, but overreacting to someone peeking at an incoming message or setting extreme boundaries on looking at their phone is a sign they may be hiding something like photos.

Excessive social media use: This could be a false positive as people already use social media excessively. However, spending increasing time on social media has been linked to cheating. It’s a slippery slope to starting emotional affairs that could turn into more. If you ask them questions and suddenly they change the topic or try to deflect, it may be time to take the next step to find out the truth.

Waning intimacy: Romantic relationships thrive or fail on the level of intimacy and vulnerability in several areas. Is there considerably less physical intimacy or communication in your relationship? Does it seem like your partner isn’t making an emotional connection the way they were before?

Ambiguous activity: If you ask them where they are going or how their day was, do they only give short answers with very few details? Vague and ambiguous activity is a natural response when trying to cover something up.

If some of these signs are showing up in your relationship, it may be time to find out for sure. It’s scary and hurts to think that it might be true, but you deserve to know.